It is hard to believe that it is already mid-June. I apologize for my absence recently. I've been in and out of the office and got to do some traveling. I'll give some highlights soon. For now, I want to give you an update on what's next.
I'll be leaving South Africa on July 20 - roughly five weeks from now. I will not ever be ready to say goodbye to this place, but I fully intend to find my way back. And I'm fully committed to leaving well, as I wrote about when I first arrived.
When I return, I'll have two weeks at home and will then head to Boston! There I'll be living in an intentional community called Life Together for ten months. I've wanted to live in an intentional community ever since my high school youth leader BJ told me about them. He compared it to the community of apostles in the beginning of Acts, where they "held all things in common" and basically put the community above the individual.
In American society, this is radically counter-cultural. The pervasive myth of the American Dream, tired trope of rugged individualism, and repeated calls to "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" result in many struggling to understand the value of this type of experiment.
In South Africa, there is another philosophical ideal: ubuntu. It means "I am because you are." It means that when our neighbor hurts, we hurt too. It means that everyone is our neighbor. It means that we are all connected, and that when we ignore or deny those connections, we sever part of what makes us human. Now of course, not everyone lives into this ideal, and Western imperialism and globalization have caused society to look more and more like what we find in the States. But I believe in ubuntu, and I've experienced it in all sorts of small ways. And I want to try to bring it home.
In addition to community life, we will each work 32 hours a week with a non-profit or church partner on social justice issues. We will spend the remaining work week together learning about activism, community organizing, and creating social change. Our housing, utilities, insurance, and transportation are all covered, and we receive a modest stipend for other expenses. (Thankfully I do not have to raise another $10k this year.)
Some of you are probably wondering when I'll get a "real" job making "real" money. I don't fault you for that. In return I ask of you: What is filling your soul right now? Are you passionate about what you're doing? Do you feel challenged? When is the last time your world was turned completely upside-down? If you knew all of your basic needs were covered and had no obligations, what would you do?
In the meantime, here is a blog post by one of this year's Life Together fellows. It brought me to tears. And the Oscar Romero prayer found at the end of this newsletter is a beautiful reminder as I finish out my year here. This community is already filling my soul in so many ways, and I think it is exactly what I need during what is sure to be a difficult transition.
Light and love,